Kinds of Kindness

There are several kinds of kind people;

People who are kind to please people…

People who are kind to use people…

People who are kind to be graceful, respectful, considerate, empathetic and caring.

We must become intentional with which kind of kind person we are as a person and mindful of what kind of kindness we engage with.

Everyone has qualities and flaws, which means that even a good hearted person can not necessarily be the right person, partner or friend for us.

How we can tell the difference is the kindness they show when we are in disagreement, misalignment and when we are going through challenges.

Asking ourselves the following questions;

Is this kindness selfless or transactional?

Is this kindness filled with genuine honesty or simply compliments and praises?

Is this kindness consistent and deliberate or inconsistent and calculated?

Define what kind of kindness you value.

This is how you can discern the difference between people pleasers, people users and those who are authentically kind for the sake of being graceful, respectful, considerate, empathetic and caring.

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